Tuesday, September 23, 2008

The Lost Horse

I read this story today on the 48 Days blog. The story is a good reminder that not everything is as bad (or as good) as it sometimes seems.

Once there was an old man who lived in a tiny village. Although poor, he was envied by all, because he owned a beautiful white horse. People offered fabulous prices for the horse, but the old man always refused. “This horse is a friend, not a possession,” he would respond.

One morning the horse was not in the stable. All the villagers said, “You old fool. We told you someone would steal that beautiful horse. You could at least have gotten the money. Now the horse is gone, and you’ve been cursed with misfortune.”

The old man responded, “Perhaps. All I know is that my horse is gone; the rest I do not know. Whether it be a curse or a blessing, I can’t say.”

After fifteen days the horse returned. He hadn’t been stolen; he had run away into the forest. Not only had he returned, he had brought a dozen wild horses back with him. Once again the village people gathered around the old man and said, “You were right - what we thought was a curse was a blessing. Please forgive us.” The old man responded, “Perhaps. Once again you’ve gone too far. How do you know if this is a blessing or a curse? Unless you can see the whole story, how can you judge?” But the people could only see the obvious. The old man now had twelve additional horses that could be broken and sold for a great deal of money.

The old man had a son, an only son. He began to break the wild horses. Unfortunately, after just a few days, he fell from a horse and broke both his legs. Once again the villagers gathered around the old man and said, “You were right. The wild horses were not a blessing; they were a curse. Your only son has broken his legs and now in your old age you have no one to help you. You are poorer than ever.” But the old man said, “Perhaps. Don’t go so far. Say only that my son broke his legs. We have only a fragment of the whole story.”

It so happened that a few weeks later the country went to war with a neighboring country. All the young men of the village were required to join the army. Only the son of the old man was excluded, because he had two broken legs. Once again the people gathered around, crying because there was little chance their sons would return. “You were right, old man. Your son’s accident was a blessing. Our sons are gone forever.”The old man spoke again. “You people are always quick to jump to conclusions. Only God knows the final story.”

And so it is with our lives. What we see as a blessing or a curse may simply be part of God’s preparation for what lies ahead. Be careful in seeing “disaster” in any change. Just recognize it as change - which opens the door for good as well as bad - for gain as well as possible loss.

Quick update on Lilly: Her surgery went very well, praise God! Thanks for your prayers.

Monday, September 22, 2008

Praying for Lilly

It's been an eventful week for my friends Wes and Amanda. Last Tuesday their beautiful daughter Lilly was born. On Thursday she was diagnosed with coarctation, a narrowing of the aorta, which will require surgery. She was transferred to UAB and is scheduled for surgery early tomorrow morning.

Other than the heart condition, Lilly is doing great. Please keep her and her family in your prayers as she undergoes surgery tomorrow. I've added Amanda's blog, Motherhood on a Mission, to my bloglist, and you can read more about her condition there.

Friday, September 19, 2008

Easy Crockpot Camp Stew

With fall weather finally here (okay, at least it's only 80 degrees now instead of 95, so that's close enough to fall weather in my book), it's time to get out the crockpot. I love making soups and stews in my crockpot, but when it's hot enough to fry an egg on the sidewalk it's hard for me to muster the desire for a steaming hot bowl of soup. That's one of the reasons why I'm so thankful for the cooler temperatures.

Here's a recipe for a very easy camp stew--the only prep work is opening cans and pouring them into your crockpot.

Camp Stew

Ingredients:
1 can crushed tomatoes
1 can creamed corn
1 can each of barbecue pork, chicken and beef (I use Castleberry's brand)
1 can potatoes
1 can beans (I usually use pinto or ranch beans)

Combine all in crock pot and simmer on low 6-8 hours.

Check out more recipes at the Grocery Cart Challenge Recipe Swap.

Wednesday, September 10, 2008

Dollars and Sense on the Web

The older I get, the more interest I have in personal finance. I'm by no means a financial expert, but I realize that financial stewardship is an important part of my faith. The more money I have, the more I can give back to God and use to help others. (I wish I could say that I always keep this thought in mind when I'm patrolling the aisles at Target, but more often than not I end up buying for myself first.)

As I am trying to improve in this area of stewardship and giving, I've found several websites that offer practical (and fun) advice and tips. While some of these sites are geared toward SAHMs (Stay at Home Moms), they do contain some ideas that any of us can use. Regardless of personal income, I seriously doubt that anyone is not interested in making their paychecks stretch further and being better stewards of the money and possessions that God bestows on us.

Some of my favorite money-saving sites:
-The Grocery Cart Challenge: This stay at home mom shares her tips for spending $50 a week to feed a family of six. Considering that I've had weeks where I've spent $50 at the grocery store just to feed me, this site is helping me re-think my approach to grocery shopping. On Fridays she hosts a recipe swap for bloggers to post their favorite inexpensive recipes.

-Rocks in My Dryer: My favorite feature of this site is "Works for Me Wednesday", where fellow bloggers are invited to share their own tips for making life easier, many of which involve money-saving ideas. You'll find some unique, helpful and entertaining ideas.

-The Simple Dollar: Written by a young man who made many financial mistakes and turned his finances around, the site offers simple ways to save money and build financial stability.

Wednesday, September 03, 2008

Seeking Advice

In the wake of Bama's rout of Clemson [I'm still doing a mental happy dance in my head], I have to admit that I was rather impressed by Tigers coach Tommy Bowden's response: He sought advice from some of the game's leading coaches, ranging from his dad (Florida State coaching icon Bobby Bowden) to none other than the coach whose team whipped Clemson, Nick Saban.

I have a feeling that, if I were in his shoes, that would not be the route I would have chosen. I imagine I'd be tempted to blame others, or to avoid talking about the game, or hide from civilization altogether. Embarrassment and loss--particularly of the public sort--are not easy pills to swallow. It's difficult to set aside pride and seek advice from others, particularly from those you thought you could beat.

I think it's a valuable lesson in my Christian walk about the need to let go of pride and not be afraid to ask others for advice and help. When I mess up, it's all too tempting to try to hide or shift blame to someone else rather than admit my mistakes and seek help to make things right. Of course, God is the One I need to run to and seek wisdom from first and foremost, but He has placed others in my life to help guide me on this journey as well. It's selfish--not to mention foolish--of me to think that I can handle the ups and downs of my life alone. The people God has put into my life are not here by accident or just as window dressing. He uses them in valuable ways to help mold and shape me into the woman He wants me to become, to challenge and exhort me, to encourage and pray for me. I need to take advantage of those gifts and not let my pride get in the way.