Friday, June 10, 2005

Constructive Criticism

I’ll admit, I don’t take criticism very well. My gut reaction is usually to start becoming defensive (in my mind, at least, if I don’t verbalize it), turn pouty and withdraw. I suppose that no one really wants to be criticized, even if it’s “constructive” criticism, but I think others handle it better than I usually do.

I had to take some constructive criticism earlier in the week. It always stings, even when it’s coming from someone who I know loves me and has my best interest at heart.

But criticism is not necessarily a bad thing. In fact, God espouses its virtues in Proverbs:

“If you listen to constructive criticism, you will be at home among the wise. If you reject criticism, you only harm yourself; but if you listen to correction, you grow in understanding.” Proverbs 15:31-32

O God, teach me to not shy away from criticism, but to graciously accept it and even welcome it.

1 comment:

DJG said...

Lisa, I think we are on the same page this morning.

My post was a response to criticism I had received that I didn't respond too well to.

God will help us grow into it!